What I help with
Trauma
Something happened and it changed you. You do not need to have all the words for it to begin.
Trauma is not defined by what happened. It is defined by what it did to you. Two people can go through the same experience and respond very differently, and neither is wrong. Trauma can show up in thoughts, emotions, relationships and the body, often long after the event has passed. My guides below explain what trauma is, why it stays with us, and what thoughtful support looks like.
Trauma is not about what happened
Trauma is defined by what an experience did to you, not by what the experience was. Two people can go through the same event and respond very differently. That is not about resilience or strength — it is about how the nervous system processes what it could not make sense of at the time.
Trauma can show up as intrusive memories, hypervigilance, emotional numbness, difficulty trusting people, or a sense of being disconnected from your own life. It can arrive long after the event itself.
What I can help with
I work with people carrying the impact of difficult or traumatic experiences — including childhood experiences, loss, accidents, relationships, and situations where they felt powerless or unsafe. I am trauma-informed in my approach, which means I work carefully and at your pace. You will never be pushed to go somewhere before you are ready.
You do not need to have a clear narrative of what happened to begin. Sometimes the work starts with understanding how it lives in you now.
Guides on trauma
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A plain English guide to what trauma is, how it affects the mind and body, and why the impact can last long after the event.
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Trauma is not just a memory. This guide explains why it is often felt physically as well as emotionally.
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Healing from trauma takes time. This guide offers gentle starting points to help you feel safer and more grounded.
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Counselling can support trauma recovery by providing a safe space and helping you process experiences at your own pace.
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